Heather Wood
Heather
Onondaga County Public Libraries

STUPENDOUS LOVE Building a Life You Love in the Messy Middle Report

Audience Feedback on May 1, 2026

Attendee Responses

34

100% found this session valuable

82% would hear this speaker again

Attendees found this session

Inspiring

94%

Engaging

91%

Relevant

91%

Actionable

90%

Summary: A Heartfelt Journey Through Tragedy That Inspires Audiences to Live Boldly and Love Without Limits

Heather Wood delivered an incredibly powerful and "deeply vulnerable, heart wrenching" talk that left the audience transformed. Her story about her daughter Ava and how she found the strength to move forward after unimaginable tragedy inspired people to reconnect with loved ones and "live life more boldly." The talk was described as "amazing, incredible, heartfelt, and life changing," with audience members feeling better prepared to embrace life's challenges. Heather's message about living in the "messy middle" and choosing to love despite pain resonated deeply, reminding everyone that "bad things don't erase what is or was good."

Presentation Outcomes Achieved:

  • Live boldly and love without limits, even when facing life's darkest moments

  • Embrace the "messy middle" of life rather than waiting for perfect moments

  • Bad experiences don't erase the good—hold onto what was beautiful and real

Summary generated based on Heather's attendee testimonials


How attendees describe this talk

I appreciate her ability to speak about her experiences. I respect Heather for not only sharing her experiences but for talking about it and still having love. I hope she continues being the great person she is. It was an informative talking about dealing with grief and moving forward. I think it would be helpful to include even more ways to connect and bulleted lessons that others can take with them. Thank you.

Trudi Antoine

Inspiring woman telling her story and how she pulled herself out of darkness after tragedy. She talks about her teenage daughter Ava who was horribly taken from her and how she took inspiration herself from how Ava lived and who Ava was, to move forward in her life and live boldly and love stupendously.

Kayla Saltamach

A woman who’s been thru an incredible amount of pain who most people never experience, gets up and inspires people to try to get thru the bad bc there’s more than just that

Attendee

Heather's talk was inspirational and heartfelt. I will be reaching out to love ones that I have lost touch with. I plan on starting to live life more boldly.

Loleta Allen

Inspiring! It really made me reflect on my life and think about how I could live more fully and with more love.

Caroline Chatterton

Deeply vulnerable, heart wrenching, and ultimately a great example of living and loving out loud.

Attendee

A Reminder to remember what’s real and that bad things don’t erase what is or was good.

Attendee

Inspiring and moving- I feel like I’m better prepared to live in the messsy middle ♥️

Becky Gilbert

So meaningful and raw. It makes you think about your own life and how blessed we are.

Sharon Rorer


Feedback for Heather and the event

You're doing a great job. I'm sorry to hear about everything that happened. You're a great public speaker

Tristan

Love the postcard activity! Great marketing! The talk was also great, thank you for sharing about Ava!

Kayla Saltamach

It was a great session. And thank you for sharing your experience with us.

Trudi Antoine

The feedback at the table was also amazing!

Raisa Zhovklaya

PLN Syracuse

Thank you for the perspective on living!

Jane Vangelov

Loved it. The presentation was great!

Sharon Rorer

Nothing… but thank you so much!

Kimberly Lighton

Great talk! Thanks for coming

Michael Cathcart

You are such an inspiration

Loleta Allen